Living 1 Corinthians 13 in Real Life

February 10, 2025 0 By John Rains

1 Corinthians 13 is often read at weddings, painting a beautiful picture of love that is patient, kind, humble, and enduring. But this passage wasn’t written just for couples. It was written for all of us, in every aspect of life.

What Does Love Look Like Beyond the Wedding Aisle?

Love is easy when things are going well. It’s easy to be patient when no one is testing your limits, to be kind when people are kind to you. But what about when love is difficult? When someone hurts you? When patience runs thin? When forgiveness feels impossible?

Paul reminds us that real love is more than a feeling—it’s a choice. Love is patient when we’re dealing with difficult people. Love is kind even when we don’t receive kindness in return. Love keeps no record of wrongs, even when the world tells us to hold grudges.

Love in a World of Division

We live in a world where differences divide us, where people argue more than they listen, and where selfishness often takes center stage. But Paul’s words challenge us: Love does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered.

Loving like this means choosing grace over anger, understanding over judgment, and compassion over pride. It means listening to someone’s heart rather than just their words. It means remembering that every person you meet is someone Christ died for.

Love in Our Daily Walk

Living out 1 Corinthians 13 isn’t always easy. It means forgiving the person who never apologized. It means serving others without expecting anything in return. It means loving even when it costs us something.

Jesus showed us this love on the cross—love that gave everything, love that never fails. And now, we are called to do the same.

So today, let’s live out real love. Not just in words, but in action. Let’s be patient, kind, forgiving, and selfless. Because in the end, faith, hope, and love remain. But the greatest of these is love.